Player, Parent, and Coach Expectations
Player Expectations :
● I will treat my coaches, my teammates, other players, referees, and spectators with
respect, always.
● I will be a positive role model and encourage good sportsmanship from fellow players, coaches, and parents.
● I will remember that all players have talents and weaknesses, the same as I do. I will
never ridicule or yell at any player for making a mistake during a soccer game or during practice.
● I will refrain from open arguments with referees, coaches, parents, and other athletes.
● I will refrain from making negative comments about coaches, other players, parents, and referees.
● I understand that I must be on time and play my best at all practices and games. I will listen to my coaches and do what is asked of me in order to improve my game and my position on the team. If I need to leave a practice or game early, I will inform my coaches in a timely manner.
● Once I am at the soccer field for practice, I will not utilize my cell phone (or smart watch) to call or text anyone unless I receive approval from one of my coaches.
● I understand that I am responsible for my uniform and my equipment.
● While sitting on the bench during a game, I will watch the game and support my
teammates who are in the game. I will provide only positive comments to the players on the field.
● I will never use social media to damage my reputation or our soccer community. I
understand that posting hurtful information can destroy a friendship, family relationships, and even a soccer team in a matter of minutes. I will treat these words for what they are: permanent records that can never be erased.
● I will not bully or haze any teammate or other person involved with the club. Bullying of any type will not be tolerated and will be grounds for dismissal from the club. I will report any bullying or hazing to the coaches or staff members.
Not following these expectations is grounds for dismissal from the club.
Parent Expectations:
● I will treat coaches, players, referees, and spectators with respect, always.
● I will be a positive role model and encourage good sportsmanship from players, coaches, and parents.
● I will remember that all players have talents and weaknesses. I will never ridicule or yell at any player for making a mistake during a soccer game or during practice.
● In terms of discussing issues with my athlete: I will only discuss issues with the coach, not with the parent administrator or any other parent. Time for discussion must be mutually agreed on with the coach.
● I will refrain from open arguments with referees, coaches, parents, and athletes.
● I will refrain from making negative comments about other coaches, players, parents, and referees.
● I will not question an official’s call. Do not berate or act unkindly to any official. Set the example by showing respect, dignity and total sportsmanship at all times. Officials are in short supply, officials will make good calls and bad calls, berating an official will not change the call that is made.
● I will pay all fees (club and team) in a timely manner. In many cases your team administrator is a parent volunteer. This is a crucial role for every team as they see to it that tournaments, referee fees, and coaches travel fees are paid.
● I will get my child to practice and games on time with the necessary equipment.
● I will not coach from the spectator’s side during matches and training. This is what the coaches are for.
● I will show a positive manner when cheering. I will support all athletes by giving encouragement.
● I will never ridicule or shout at any athletes during a game.
● I will respect the facilities at our opponent’s grounds as well as at our home facilities.
● I will always encourage my child to play by the rules.
Not following these expectations is grounds for dismissal from the club.
Coach Expectations:
● I will treat all coaches, players, referees, and spectators with respect, always.
● I will be a positive role model and encourage good sportsmanship from players, coaches, and parents.
● I will remember that all players have talents and weaknesses. I will never ridicule or yell at any player for making a mistake during a soccer game or during practice.
● I will attend all practices and games. If I have a conflict, I will ensure that I find another coach and inform parents prior to that practice or game.
● I will provide a positive role model for my players and parents, by consistently acting in a positive, controlled, and mature manner.
● I will demonstrate good sportsmanship and maintain a proper perspective on the purpose of TFA; namely, participation is for the enjoyment and benefit of the athletes (not the adults).
● I will learn the rules of soccer and earn at least a basic certification.
● Above all else, I will maintain the safety and well-being of the athletes.
● I will explain to (and remind) parents what is expected of them and their children. I will encourage them to read the player and parent expectations.
● I will provide a positive, enjoyable atmosphere for the players and parents.
● I will refrain from open arguments with referees, other coaches, parents, and athletes.
● I will encourage parents to support the team with their presence as much as possible.
● I will provide necessary guidance at games and practices.
● I will discipline players in a fair and consistent manner.
● I will refrain from making negative comments about other coaches, players, parents, and referees.
● I will maintain a consistent practice schedule.
● I will ensure that training sessions are fun and challenging for the players.
● Communication is crucial. I will be sure to keep an open line of communication with DOC, age group director, parents, and athletes.
Not following these expectations is grounds for dismissal from the club.
